Genesis 31:1 - Lavan's sons accuse Yaakov

Genesis 31:1 - בראשית 31:1

Hebrew Text

וַיִּשְׁמַע אֶת־דִּבְרֵי בְנֵי־לָבָן לֵאמֹר לָקַח יַעֲקֹב אֵת כָּל־אֲשֶׁר לְאָבִינוּ וּמֵאֲשֶׁר לְאָבִינוּ עָשָׂה אֵת כָּל־הַכָּבֹד הַזֶּה׃

English Translation

And he heard the words of Lavan’s sons, saying, Ya῾aqov has taken away all that was our father’s; and of that which was our father’s has he gotten all his glory.

Transliteration

Vayishma et-divrei venei-Lavan lemor lakach Yaakov et kol-asher le-avinu ume'asher le-avinu asah et kol-hakavod hazeh.

Hebrew Leining Text

וַיִּשְׁמַ֗ע אֶת־דִּבְרֵ֤י בְנֵֽי־לָבָן֙ לֵאמֹ֔ר לָקַ֣ח יַעֲקֹ֔ב אֵ֖ת כׇּל־אֲשֶׁ֣ר לְאָבִ֑ינוּ וּמֵאֲשֶׁ֣ר לְאָבִ֔ינוּ עָשָׂ֕ה אֵ֥ת כׇּל־הַכָּבֹ֖ד הַזֶּֽה׃

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Parasha Commentary

Context of the Verse

The verse (Bereshit 31:1) describes Yaakov overhearing the complaints of Lavan's sons, who accuse him of taking their father's wealth and using it to build his own prosperity. This occurs after Yaakov had worked for Lavan for many years, during which Hashem blessed him with great material success.

Rashi's Explanation

Rashi explains that Lavan's sons were jealous of Yaakov's success, attributing it to their father's wealth rather than recognizing that it came from Hashem's blessing. Rashi notes that their accusation—"he has taken all that was our father's"—reflects their misunderstanding of the situation, as Yaakov had rightfully earned his wealth through his labor and divine favor.

Ramban's Insight

The Ramban adds that Lavan's sons failed to acknowledge the miraculous nature of Yaakov's success. Despite Lavan's repeated attempts to deceive Yaakov (e.g., switching his wages), Hashem ensured Yaakov's flocks thrived. The phrase "all this glory" (כל הכבוד הזה) refers not only to material wealth but also to the divine providence evident in Yaakov's life.

Midrashic Interpretation

The Midrash (Bereshit Rabbah 74:7) highlights the irony in Lavan's sons' words. They accused Yaakov of taking "all that was our father's," yet earlier (Bereshit 30:35), Lavan had removed all the spotted and speckled animals—precisely those that would later become Yaakov's. Thus, Yaakov's wealth came from Hashem's intervention, not from Lavan's flocks.

Moral Lesson

  • Jealousy blinds: Lavan's sons could not recognize divine blessing, attributing Yaakov's success to theft rather than righteousness.
  • Divine justice: Yaakov's prosperity was a reward for his integrity despite Lavan's deception, as emphasized in the Talmud (Megillah 13b).
  • Bitachon (trust in Hashem): The verse underscores that true success comes from Hashem, not human efforts alone.

📚 Talmud Citations

This verse is not quoted in the Talmud.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What does Genesis 31:1 mean when it says Yaakov took 'all that was our father's'?
A: According to Rashi, Lavan's sons were falsely accusing Yaakov of taking their father's wealth dishonestly. In reality, Yaakov had worked faithfully for Lavan for many years, and Hashem blessed Lavan's flocks because of Yaakov's merit (Genesis 30:27). The Torah shows how Lavan's family misunderstood Yaakov's success.
Q: Why is this verse important in Yaakov's story?
A: This verse marks a turning point where Yaakov realizes he can no longer stay with Lavan. The Sages explain (Midrash Bereishit Rabbah) that when Yaakov heard Lavan's sons speaking this way, he understood their growing resentment and that it was time to return to Eretz Yisrael as Hashem had commanded him.
Q: What can we learn from how Yaakov handled this situation?
A: The Rambam teaches (Hilchot De'ot) that Yaakov's response shows wisdom - he didn't confront them angrily but waited to hear Hashem's instruction (Genesis 31:3). This teaches us to respond to accusations with patience and seek divine guidance before acting.
Q: How does the phrase 'all his glory' apply to us today?
A: The Kli Yakar explains that true 'glory' (kavod) comes from Hashem's blessings, not from taking from others. Like Yaakov, we should strive to build our success honestly through hard work and trust in Hashem, not through exploiting others.
Q: Why does the Torah tell us what Lavan's sons were saying?
A: The Ohr HaChaim explains that recording their words shows how people often attribute others' success to theft or luck rather than recognizing Hashem's providence and the person's merits. This is a recurring theme in Jewish history that we must be aware of.