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Numbers 5:13 - Secret sin's hidden consequences?

Numbers 5:13 - במדבר 5:13

Hebrew Text

וְשָׁכַב אִישׁ אֹתָהּ שִׁכְבַת־זֶרַע וְנֶעְלַם מֵעֵינֵי אִישָׁהּ וְנִסְתְּרָה וְהִיא נִטְמָאָה וְעֵד אֵין בָּהּ וְהִוא לֹא נִתְפָּשָׂה׃

English Translation

and a man lie with her carnally, and it be hid from the eyes of her husband, and she be undetected, and she be defiled, and there is no witness against her, nor is she taken in the act;

Transliteration

Ve'shavakh ish otah shikhbat-zera ve'ne'lam me'eyney ishah ve'nisterah ve'hi nitma'ah ve'ed ein bah ve'hi lo nitpasah.

Hebrew Leining Text

וְשָׁכַ֨ב אִ֣ישׁ אֹתָהּ֮ שִׁכְבַת־זֶ֒רַע֒ וְנֶעְלַם֙ מֵעֵינֵ֣י אִישָׁ֔הּ וְנִסְתְּרָ֖ה וְהִ֣יא נִטְמָ֑אָה וְעֵד֙ אֵ֣ין בָּ֔הּ וְהִ֖וא לֹ֥א נִתְפָּֽשָׂה׃
וְשָׁכַ֨ב אִ֣ישׁ אֹתָהּ֮ שִׁכְבַת־זֶ֒רַע֒ וְנֶעְלַם֙ מֵעֵינֵ֣י אִישָׁ֔הּ וְנִסְתְּרָ֖ה וְהִ֣יא נִטְמָ֑אָה וְעֵד֙ אֵ֣ין בָּ֔הּ וְהִ֖וא לֹ֥א נִתְפָּֽשָׂה׃

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Parasha Commentary

Context in the Torah

This verse (Numbers 5:13) is part of the passage detailing the laws of the Sotah, a woman suspected of adultery. The Torah outlines a unique ritual involving the mei Sotah (bitter waters) to determine her guilt or innocence when there are no witnesses to the alleged transgression.

Key Terms and Their Meanings

  • "וְשָׁכַב אִישׁ אֹתָהּ שִׁכְבַת־זֶרַע" - Rashi explains that this refers to actual intercourse, not merely seclusion (yichud), as the term shichvas zera is explicit.
  • "וְנֶעְלַם מֵעֵינֵי אִישָׁהּ" - The act was hidden from her husband's knowledge, meaning he did not witness it directly (Rambam, Hilchos Sotah 1:1).
  • "וְנִסְתְּרָה" - The woman secluded herself with the suspected man, which is a prerequisite for the Sotah procedure (Talmud, Sotah 2a).
  • "וְהִיא נִטְמָאָה" - The term nitma'ah indicates ritual impurity, but here it refers to moral defilement through adultery (Ibn Ezra).

Halachic Implications

The verse sets the conditions under which the Sotah ritual applies:

  • There must be reasonable suspicion due to seclusion (setirah) with another man.
  • There are no witnesses to the act itself (ve'ed ein bah), as otherwise, standard adultery laws would apply (Deuteronomy 22:22).
  • The husband must warn his wife beforehand not to seclude herself with the suspected man (Talmud, Sotah 3a).

Midrashic Insights

The Midrash (Bamidbar Rabbah 9:9) notes that this law reflects Divine mercy—rather than leaving suspicion unresolved, Hashem provides a supernatural means (through the mei Sotah) to reveal the truth. The Or HaChaim adds that the hidden nature of the sin (ne'lam) parallels how human actions are never truly hidden from Hashem.

Moral Lessons

Rabbi Samson Raphael Hirsch emphasizes that the Sotah procedure underscores the sanctity of marriage and the severity of violating trust. The public nature of the ritual (Numbers 5:15-22) serves as a deterrent, reinforcing the importance of marital fidelity in Jewish life.

📚 Talmud Citations

This verse is quoted in the Talmud.

📖 Sotah 2a
The verse is discussed in the context of the laws concerning a woman suspected of adultery (Sotah). The Talmud explores the conditions under which the ordeal of the bitter water is administered, referencing this verse to discuss the requirement that the act must be hidden from the husband's knowledge.
📖 Sotah 27b
The verse is cited in a discussion about the necessity of witnesses in cases of suspected adultery, emphasizing the scenario where there are no witnesses to the act.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What does Numbers 5:13 mean in the Torah?
A: Numbers 5:13 describes a situation where a married woman has relations with another man secretly (without witnesses or being caught), making her ritually impure (טמאה). This verse introduces the laws of the Sotah (suspected adulteress), which are later detailed in the Torah portion (Bamidbar 5:11-31). The Talmud (Sotah 2a) explains that this law addresses cases where there is suspicion but no clear evidence.
Q: Why is there a special law for a suspected adulteress (Sotah) in the Torah?
A: The Sotah procedure (described in Numbers 5) was given to resolve situations where a wife was suspected of adultery but there were no witnesses (Rambam, Hilchot Sotah 1:1). The Torah provides a way to clarify her innocence or guilt through a miraculous test involving the 'bitter waters' to maintain peace in the household and uphold marital sanctity (Ketubot 72b).
Q: Does the law of Sotah still apply today?
A: No, the Sotah ritual is no longer practiced today. The Mishnah (Sotah 9:9) states that the procedure ceased when adultery became widespread, and the Sanhedrin (Jewish high court) lost the authority to administer it. Rambam (Hilchot Sotah 4:19) explains that certain conditions must be met for the ritual to apply, which are no longer possible in our times.
Q: What lesson can we learn from the Sotah passage in the Torah?
A: The Sotah passage teaches the importance of trust and fidelity in marriage. Rashi (on Numbers 5:14) notes that the Torah emphasizes secrecy ('it was hidden from her husband') to show that even private wrongdoing has consequences. The Midrash (Bamidbar Rabbah 9:9) also highlights that God cares deeply about moral purity and justice in relationships.
Q: Why does the Torah mention 'no witnesses' in Numbers 5:13?
A: The phrase 'no witness against her' clarifies that the Sotah law applies only when there is suspicion without proof (Talmud Sotah 2b). If there were valid witnesses, standard laws of adultery would apply (requiring two witnesses, as per Deuteronomy 19:15). The absence of witnesses leads to the unique Sotah procedure to resolve doubt.