Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What is the meaning of Genesis 29:6?
A: In Genesis 29:6, Yaakov (Jacob) asks shepherds if Lavan (Laban) is well ('הֲשָׁלוֹם לוֹ'), and they respond that he is well and mention that his daughter Rachel is coming with the sheep. This verse introduces Rachel, who will later become Yaakov's wife. Rashi explains that this exchange shows Yaakov's wisdom in gathering information before meeting his future family.
Q: Why does the verse mention Rachel coming with the sheep?
A: The mention of Rachel coming with the sheep highlights her role as a shepherd, which was unusual for women at that time. The Midrash (Bereishit Rabbah 70:11) notes that this demonstrates Rachel's righteousness and diligence, qualities that made her a fitting match for Yaakov.
Q: What can we learn from Yaakov's question 'Is he well?' in this verse?
A: Yaakov's question 'Is he well?' (הֲשָׁלוֹם לוֹ) teaches the importance of inquiring about others' welfare with sincerity. The Rambam (Hilchot De'ot 6:3) emphasizes that showing concern for others is a fundamental Jewish value. Yaakov's inquiry also sets the stage for his meeting with Rachel, showing proper manners before a significant encounter.
Q: How does this verse connect to Jewish family values?
A: This verse introduces the meeting between Yaakov and Rachel, which leads to their marriage and the foundation of the Twelve Tribes. The Talmud (Moed Katan 18b) discusses the importance of proper courtship and family ties, as seen in Yaakov's respectful approach to Rachel and her family.
Q: Why is Rachel described as coming with the sheep?
A: Rachel is described as coming with the sheep to emphasize her role in tending her father's flock, which shows her responsibility and kindness. The Midrash (Bereishit Rabbah 70:11) explains that this detail foreshadows her future as a matriarch of the Jewish people, demonstrating strength and care—qualities essential for building a righteous family.
Context in the Torah
The verse appears in Bereishit (Genesis) 29:6, where Yaakov arrives in Charan and inquires about his uncle Lavan's welfare from the shepherds at the well. The shepherds respond that Lavan is well, and they point out that Rachel, his daughter, is approaching with the flock.
Rashi's Commentary
Rashi (Rabbi Shlomo Yitzchaki) explains that Yaakov's question, "הֲשָׁלוֹם לוֹ" ("Is he well?"), demonstrates proper derech eretz (respectful conduct). Even though Yaakov was weary from his journey, he first inquired about Lavan's welfare before asking about Rachel. The shepherds' response, "שָׁלוֹם" ("He is well"), indicates that Lavan was in good health and that his affairs were prosperous.
Rachel's Arrival with the Sheep
The mention of Rachel coming with the sheep is significant. The Midrash (Bereishit Rabbah 70:11) notes that Rachel was a shepherdess, which was unusual for a woman of her status (as Lavan was a wealthy man). This highlights her righteousness and humility, as she willingly took on physical labor rather than relying on her father's wealth. The Kli Yakar (Rabbi Shlomo Ephraim Luntschitz) adds that this foreshadowed her future role as a matriarch who would endure hardship for the sake of the Jewish people.
Yaakov's Immediate Recognition
The Or HaChaim (Rabbi Chaim ibn Attar) observes that the verse emphasizes "וְהִנֵּה" ("and behold"), indicating that Yaakov immediately recognized Rachel as his destined wife. This aligns with the Talmudic teaching (Moed Katan 18b) that Heaven orchestrates meetings between soulmates, and Yaakov sensed this divine providence upon seeing her.
Lessons in Middot (Character Traits)