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Genesis 31:30 - Idols or family loyalty?

Genesis 31:30 - בראשית 31:30

Hebrew Text

וְעַתָּה הָלֹךְ הָלַכְתָּ כִּי־נִכְסֹף נִכְסַפְתָּה לְבֵית אָבִיךָ לָמָּה גָנַבְתָּ אֶת־אֱלֹהָי׃

English Translation

And now, though thou wouldst needs be gone, because thou dost long after thy father’s house, yet why hast thou stolen my gods?

Transliteration

Ve'ata haloch halachta ki-nichsof nichsafta leveit avicha lama ganavta et-Elohai.

Hebrew Leining Text

וְעַתָּה֙ הָלֹ֣ךְ הָלַ֔כְתָּ כִּֽי־נִכְסֹ֥ף נִכְסַ֖פְתָּה לְבֵ֣ית אָבִ֑יךָ לָ֥מָּה גָנַ֖בְתָּ אֶת־אֱלֹהָֽי׃
וְעַתָּה֙ הָלֹ֣ךְ הָלַ֔כְתָּ כִּֽי־נִכְסֹ֥ף נִכְסַ֖פְתָּה לְבֵ֣ית אָבִ֑יךָ לָ֥מָּה גָנַ֖בְתָּ אֶת־אֱלֹהָֽי׃

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Parasha Commentary

Context of the Verse

This verse (Genesis 31:30) is part of the confrontation between Yaakov (Jacob) and Lavan (Laban) after Yaakov secretly departed from Lavan's household with his family. Lavan accuses Yaakov of leaving without proper farewell and, more seriously, of stealing his household idols (terafim). The verse reflects Lavan's emotional and accusatory tone, questioning Yaakov's motives and actions.

Lavan's Accusation

Rashi explains that Lavan acknowledges Yaakov's longing for his father's home (בית אביך), referring to Yitzchak (Isaac), but questions why Yaakov would steal his idols. The phrase "נִכְסֹף נִכְסַפְתָּה" ("you longed intensely") emphasizes Yaakov's deep yearning to return to his family, which Lavan does not dispute. However, Lavan cannot reconcile this with the alleged theft of his gods.

The Theft of the Terafim

According to the Midrash (Bereshit Rabbah 74:5), Rachel stole Lavan's terafim to prevent him from idolatry. The Talmud (Sanhedrin 102b) suggests that these idols were used for divination, and Rachel sought to remove this evil influence from her father's house. Ramban (Nachmanides) adds that Rachel may have also intended to wean Lavan away from his idolatrous practices by taking his objects of worship.

Yaakov's Unawareness

Rashi notes that Yaakov was unaware of Rachel's theft, as he responds later (Genesis 31:32) with a curse on whoever took the idols. This highlights Rachel's independent action, motivated by her desire to protect her family from Lavan's idolatry. The Midrash further suggests that Rachel's act was spiritually justified, even if it appeared deceitful on the surface.

Lavan's Hypocrisy

Ibn Ezra points out the irony in Lavan's accusation: he claims to care about his idols, yet he had previously treated Yaakov deceitfully (e.g., switching Leah for Rachel). The Sforno adds that Lavan's real concern was not spiritual but material—the terafim may have held monetary or symbolic value, representing his authority over the household.

Key Lessons

  • Family Loyalty: Yaakov's longing for his father's house reflects the importance of familial bonds in Jewish tradition.
  • Rejection of Idolatry: Rachel's actions demonstrate the Torah's imperative to distance oneself from avodah zarah (idolatry), even at personal risk.
  • Divine Providence: The episode underscores Hashem's protection of Yaakov, as Lavan's pursuit ultimately fails (Genesis 31:24).

📚 Talmud Citations

This verse is quoted in the Talmud.

📖 Sanhedrin 31b
The verse is referenced in a discussion about the legal implications of theft and the motivations behind it, illustrating the complexity of human intentions in legal disputes.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What does Genesis 31:30 mean?
A: In Genesis 31:30, Lavan (Laban) confronts Yaakov (Jacob) after realizing that Yaakov left without saying goodbye and that his household idols (terafim) were missing. Lavan accuses Yaakov of longing to return to his father's home but questions why he would also 'steal his gods.' According to Rashi, this verse shows Lavan's misplaced priorities—he was more concerned about his stolen idols than his daughters and grandchildren leaving.
Q: Why did Lavan accuse Yaakov of stealing his gods?
A: Lavan accused Yaakov of stealing his household idols (terafim) because Rachel had secretly taken them (Genesis 31:19). The Midrash explains that Rachel did this to prevent Lavan from using them for idolatry or divination. Ramban notes that Lavan, being superstitious, believed these idols held power and was distressed by their loss.
Q: What can we learn from Genesis 31:30?
A: This verse teaches us about the futility of idol worship. Lavan, who valued his idols, did not realize they had no real power—Rachel was able to take them without consequence. The Talmud (Sanhedrin 105b) discusses how idol worship is meaningless, and this episode reinforces that true divine power lies only with Hashem.
Q: How does this verse apply today?
A: Today, this verse reminds us to examine what we prioritize in life. Just as Lavan was more concerned about his idols than his family, we must ensure that we do not value material or superficial things over meaningful relationships and spiritual growth. The Mesillat Yesharim (Path of the Just) teaches that we must focus on serving Hashem with sincerity, not misplaced attachments.