Genesis 35:22 - Reuven's grave moral failing

Genesis 35:22 - בראשית 35:22

Hebrew Text

וַיְהִי בִּשְׁכֹּן יִשְׂרָאֵל בָּאָרֶץ הַהִוא וַיֵּלֶךְ רְאוּבֵן וַיִּשְׁכַּב אֶת־בִּלְהָה פִּילֶגֶשׁ אָבִיו וַיִּשְׁמַע יִשְׂרָאֵל וַיִּהְיוּ בְנֵי־יַעֲקֹב שְׁנֵים עָשָׂר׃

English Translation

And it came to pass, when Yisra᾽el dwelt in that land, that Re᾽uven went and lay with Bilha his father’s concubine: and Yisra᾽el heard of it. Now the sons of Ya῾aqov were twelve:

Transliteration

Vayehi bishkon Yisrael ba'aretz hahi vayeilekh Re'uven vayishkav et-Bilhah pilegesh aviv vayishma Yisrael vayihyu venei-Ya'akov shneim asar.

Hebrew Leining Text

וַיְהִ֗י בִּשְׁכֹּ֤ן יִשְׂרָאֵל֙ בָּאָ֣רֶץ הַהִ֔וא וַיֵּ֣לֶךְ רְאוּבֵ֗֔ן וַיִּשְׁכַּ֕ב֙ אֶת־בִּלְהָ֖ה֙ פִּילֶ֣גֶשׁ אָבִ֑֔יו וַיִּשְׁמַ֖ע יִשְׂרָאֵ֑͏ֽל׃ {פ}
וַיִּֽהְי֥וּ בְנֵֽי־יַעֲקֹ֖ב שְׁנֵ֥ים עָשָֽׂר׃

Parasha Commentary

The Incident of Reuven and Bilhah

The verse (Bereshit 35:22) describes an incident where Reuven, Yaakov's firstborn, "lay with Bilhah, his father’s concubine." This act appears to be a severe transgression, yet the Torah does not elaborate on the consequences at this point. Traditional commentaries offer several interpretations:

Rashi's Explanation

Rashi (based on Bereshit Rabbah 98:4 and Shabbat 55b) explains that Reuven did not actually commit adultery with Bilhah. Rather, he rearranged his father's bed from Bilhah's tent to Leah's tent (his mother) after Rachel's death. This was an act of protest against Yaakov's preferential treatment of Rachel's maidservant (Bilhah) over Leah. Nevertheless, the Torah describes it in severe terms because Reuven interfered in his father's personal matters, which was inappropriate for a son.

The Ramban's Perspective

The Ramban (Nachmanides) disagrees with Rashi and argues that Reuven indeed sinned with Bilhah, as the plain meaning of the text suggests. However, he notes that this sin was later atoned for, as Reuven demonstrated repentance (as seen in his later actions, such as saving Yosef). The Ramban emphasizes that even great individuals can falter but can also achieve teshuvah (repentance).

Midrashic Interpretations

Midrash Bereshit Rabbah (98:4) offers additional insights:

  • Reuven's action was a challenge to Yaakov's authority, as Bilhah was considered part of Yaakov's household after Rachel's death.
  • Some opinions suggest that Reuven was defending his mother Leah's honor, as Yaakov may have neglected her after Rachel's passing.
  • The severity of the phrasing ("וַיִּשְׁכַּב") teaches that even improper intentions in family matters are treated seriously.

Consequences and Later References

Though the verse does not immediately state punishment, Yaakov later rebukes Reuven on his deathbed (Bereshit 49:4), saying, "Unstable as water, you shall not excel, because you went up to your father’s bed; then you defiled it—he went up to my couch." This indicates that the incident had lasting repercussions on Reuven’s leadership status.

Moral Lessons

  • The importance of proper boundaries within family relationships.
  • Even righteous individuals (like Reuven) can make grave mistakes, but teshuvah is always possible.
  • Leadership requires moral discipline—Reuven lost his firstborn rights due to impulsive actions.

📚 Talmud Citations

This verse is quoted in the Talmud.

📖 Shabbat 55b
The Talmud discusses Reuben's sin with Bilhah and debates whether he actually committed the act or if the verse is to be understood differently, suggesting he merely disturbed his father's bed.
📖 Sanhedrin 82a
The verse is referenced in a discussion about the severity of Reuben's sin and its implications for his status among the tribes of Israel.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What did Reuven do wrong in Genesis 35:22?
A: Reuven committed a serious transgression by interfering with his father Yaakov's household arrangement by being intimate with Bilhah, who was one of Yaakov's concubines (Rashi on Genesis 35:22). This was considered a violation of proper conduct and disrespect toward his father.
Q: Why is Reuven's action in Genesis 35:22 significant?
A: Reuven's action had lasting consequences—it caused him to lose his birthright as the firstborn (1 Chronicles 5:1). The Torah records this incident to teach the severity of improper behavior within family relationships and the importance of respecting parental boundaries (Talmud, Shabbat 55b).
Q: How did Yaakov react to what Reuven did?
A: The verse states that 'Yisrael heard of it,' but the Torah does not record an immediate reaction. However, later, on his deathbed, Yaakov rebukes Reuven and mentions this incident (Genesis 49:3-4), showing that it was not forgotten and had spiritual repercussions.
Q: What lesson can we learn from Reuven's mistake in this verse?
A: This teaches the importance of self-control and proper conduct, especially in family relationships. Even great individuals like Reuven (who later repented) can make serious mistakes, and actions have consequences (Midrash Bereishit Rabbah 98:4).
Q: Why does the verse mention the 12 sons of Yaakov after Reuven's sin?
A: Despite Reuven's failing, the Torah emphasizes that Yaakov's family remained complete with 12 tribes. This shows that even when individuals stumble, the Jewish people as a whole continue forward (Ramban on Genesis 35:22).

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