Genesis 40:23 - Forgotten in prison's silence?

Genesis 40:23 - בראשית 40:23

Hebrew Text

וְלֹא־זָכַר שַׂר־הַמַּשְׁקִים אֶת־יוֹסֵף וַיִּשְׁכָּחֵהוּ׃

English Translation

Nevertheless the chief butler did not remember Yosef, but forgot him.

Transliteration

Velo-zachar sar-hamashkim et-yosef vayishkachehu.

Hebrew Leining Text

וְלֹֽא־זָכַ֧ר שַֽׂר־הַמַּשְׁקִ֛ים אֶת־יוֹסֵ֖ף וַיִּשְׁכָּחֵֽהוּ׃ {פ}

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Parasha Commentary

Rashi's Explanation

Rashi (Bereshit 40:23) comments that the phrase "וַיִּשְׁכָּחֵהוּ" ("but forgot him") implies that Yosef remained in prison for an additional two years because the butler forgot him. This teaches that Yosef was punished for placing his trust in the butler rather than relying solely on Hashem to secure his release. Rashi cites Tehillim 40:5, "Happy is the man who places his trust in Hashem and does not turn to the arrogant," as a supporting verse.

Midrashic Interpretation

The Midrash (Bereshit Rabbah 89:3) elaborates that the butler's forgetfulness was divinely orchestrated. Had Yosef been released earlier through the butler's intervention, he might have returned to his father immediately. Instead, Hashem arranged for him to remain in prison until Pharaoh’s dreams necessitated his rise to power, fulfilling the divine plan for Yosef to eventually save his family during the famine.

Rambam on Divine Providence

Rambam (Hilchot De'ot 3:11) discusses the importance of bitachon (trust in Hashem) and warns against excessive reliance on human intermediaries. Yosef’s experience serves as a lesson that even when natural opportunities for salvation arise (such as the butler’s promise), one must recognize that all outcomes are ultimately determined by divine will.

Talmudic Insight

The Talmud (Shabbat 30b) teaches that "one who pleads for mercy for his friend while he himself is in need of the same thing will be answered first." The butler, who had been saved through Yosef’s interpretation, failed to reciprocate, and thus his forgetfulness reflects a moral failing. This underscores the ethical imperative to show gratitude and assist those who have helped us.

Chassidic Perspective

The Sefat Emet (Parashat Vayeshev) explains that Yosef’s extended stay in prison was a necessary refinement of his character. Only after fully internalizing the lesson of bitachon could he ascend to leadership. The delay was not a punishment but a preparation for his future role as viceroy of Egypt.

📚 Talmud Citations

This verse is quoted in the Talmud.

📖 Berakhot 13a
The verse is cited in a discussion about the importance of remembering and forgetting, particularly in the context of divine providence and human actions.
📖 Sotah 36b
The verse is referenced in the context of the story of Joseph and the chief butler, illustrating themes of memory and divine timing.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: Why didn't the chief butler remember Yosef after being released from prison?
A: According to Rashi (Genesis 40:23), the chief butler forgot Yosef because Yosef placed his trust in the butler rather than in Hashem to secure his release. This teaches us the importance of relying on Hashem rather than human beings.
Q: What lesson can we learn from Yosef being forgotten by the chief butler?
A: The Midrash (Bereshit Rabbah 89:3) explains that Hashem caused Yosef to remain in prison longer so that his eventual rise to power would happen at exactly the right time to save his family during the famine. This teaches us that what may seem like delays or setbacks are actually part of Hashem's perfect plan.
Q: How long was Yosef in prison after the chief butler forgot him?
A: The Talmud (Rosh Hashanah 10b) states that Yosef remained in prison for two additional years after this incident, making a total of 12 years in prison. This was to complete the measure of justice for the negative reports he brought about his brothers (Rashi on Genesis 41:1).
Q: Why is this verse about forgetting Yosef important in the Torah's narrative?
A: This moment of being forgotten sets the stage for Yosef's dramatic rise to power at exactly the right moment (Rambam, Guide for the Perplexed 3:36). It shows how Hashem orchestrates events in hidden ways to fulfill His greater plan of bringing the Jewish people to Egypt and ultimately redeeming them.
Q: How does this verse about being forgotten relate to our lives today?
A: The Sforno (Genesis 40:23) explains that just as Yosef's apparent setback led to his ultimate elevation, we should understand that difficulties in our lives may be preparing us for greater things. This teaches us patience and trust in Hashem's timing.