Numbers 20:13 - Waters of strife sanctify

Numbers 20:13 - במדבר 20:13

Hebrew Text

הֵמָּה מֵי מְרִיבָה אֲשֶׁר־רָבוּ בְנֵי־יִשְׂרָאֵל אֶת־יְהוָה וַיִּקָּדֵשׁ בָּם׃

English Translation

This is the water of Meriva; because the children of Yisra᾽el strove with the Lord, and he was sanctified by them.

Transliteration

Hema mei Meriva asher-ravu bnei-Yisrael et-Adonai vayikadesh bam.

Hebrew Leining Text

הֵ֚מָּה מֵ֣י מְרִיבָ֔ה אֲשֶׁר־רָב֥וּ בְנֵֽי־יִשְׂרָאֵ֖ל אֶת־יְהֹוָ֑ה וַיִּקָּדֵ֖שׁ בָּֽם׃ {ס}        

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Parasha Commentary

Understanding the Verse

The verse (Bamidbar 20:13) refers to the incident at Mei Merivah (the Waters of Strife), where Bnei Yisrael quarreled with Hashem due to their lack of water in the wilderness. The phrase "וַיִּקָּדֵשׁ בָּם" ("and He was sanctified by them") indicates that despite their rebellion, Hashem's holiness was ultimately revealed through this event.

Rashi's Explanation

Rashi (Bamidbar 20:13) explains that the name "Mei Merivah" (Waters of Strife) was given because Bnei Yisrael contended with Hashem. He further notes that Moshe and Aharon failed to sanctify Hashem properly in this incident, which led to their punishment of not entering Eretz Yisrael. Rashi emphasizes that the people's lack of faith provoked this test.

Rambam's Perspective

Rambam (Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah 8:2) discusses how miracles serve to demonstrate Hashem's presence. Here, the miracle of water from the rock was meant to strengthen faith, yet the people's complaints showed a lack of trust. The sanctification of Hashem's name ("וַיִּקָּדֵשׁ בָּם") refers to the eventual revelation of His justice and power, even in rebuke.

Midrashic Insights

  • The Midrash (Bamidbar Rabbah 19:15) teaches that the rock symbolized Torah—just as water sustains life, Torah sustains the soul. The people's impatience reflected spiritual weakness.
  • Another Midrash (Tanchuma Chukas 10) states that Moshe's striking the rock instead of speaking to it diminished the sanctification of Hashem's name, as a softer approach would have better demonstrated divine compassion.

Lessons from the Incident

The episode teaches:

  • The severity of complaining against Hashem, even in difficult circumstances.
  • The importance of leaders upholding sanctity in moments of crisis.
  • That divine justice is itself a form of sanctification, as it reaffirms Hashem's absolute authority.

📚 Talmud Citations

This verse is quoted in the Talmud.

📖 Ta'anit 9a
The verse is referenced in the context of discussing the incident at Meriva and its implications for the leadership of Moses.
📖 Sanhedrin 17a
The verse is mentioned in a discussion about the sanctification of God's name through the actions of the Israelites.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What is the meaning of 'the water of Meriva' in Numbers 20:13?
A: The 'water of Meriva' refers to the incident where the Israelites quarreled (Meriva means 'strife') with Moshe and Aharon at Kadesh, demanding water. According to Rashi, this event showed a lack of faith in Hashem, who had previously provided miracles for them. The name 'Meriva' serves as a reminder of this failure in trust.
Q: Why did Hashem say He was 'sanctified' through the Israelites' strife?
A: The sanctification refers to Hashem's justice being displayed. Ramban explains that even when the people acted improperly, Hashem's response—providing water while also holding Moshe and Aharon accountable—demonstrated His holiness and fairness. This teaches that divine justice upholds His sanctity in all situations.
Q: What lesson can we learn from the incident at Mei Meriva?
A: The Talmud (Sanhedrin 101a) derives from this episode the importance of speaking gently and avoiding anger, as Moshe's striking the rock (instead of speaking to it) led to consequences. It also teaches, as Midrash Tanchuma notes, that complaining against Hashem's leaders is akin to complaining against Hashem Himself.
Q: How does this verse connect to Moshe not entering the Land of Israel?
A: Rashi (on Numbers 20:12) explains that Moshe's deviation from Hashem's command to speak to the rock—instead striking it—resulted in him being barred from entering Eretz Yisrael. This underscores the precision required in fulfilling mitzvos and the gravity of a leader's actions.
Q: Is there a modern-day application of the Mei Meriva story?
A: Yes. The Kli Yakar emphasizes that strife and lack of faith, as shown at Meriva, hinder spiritual growth. Today, this reminds us to trust Hashem during challenges and avoid divisiveness. Additionally, the Chofetz Chaim teaches that the episode warns against public criticism, as the quarrel occurred 'before the eyes of Israel.'